Saturday, July 26, 2008

Female Vs. Male

It's great to be in a relationship. But sometimes, I can't help but to wonder how much more fun life would be to be a guy.

Females are born to be emotional. We care about things a lot more than males, which can cause more worries, heartaches, stress and anxiety.
Our decisions and goals are consistently influenced by our emotional journey.
Growth happens when we choose to feel less and think more goal-orientated.

Why do we feel self-worth when we sacrifice ourselves for others?
The Savior Syndrome. Many times, we think that we are able to save men from making stupid and childish mistakes.
For some reason, we always mistaken our emotions as wisdom. We think that because we feel more, we are wiser and more mature.
We think that we must help men because they are being too objective about their problems. "They are just not in touch with their emotions", so we must help them to see that they are making wrong decisions.
But seriously girls, how many of us have actually felt like the energy and emotions that we've invested to "help men" have actually grant us successful crops? Did they ever learn? Will they ever learn?
In the end, we always find ourselves feeling worthless. Our lives that we've sacrificed for men become pointless.
And here we are again. Lost in the middle of no where. Lonely, and scarred.
Yes? No?

And if you look at the society, there are respectful and successful women. But if you were to compare the life successes between a successful lady to a successful an, you cannot deny that males usually able to achieve more goals and earn more credits. They have the energy saved p to do more. Whereas for the female, our energy orients around our emotions and feelings.

Sometimes, I'd like to think that it is better for girls to be less in touch with their femininity, and think more like a guy.

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